Category: Writing

Christians, parenting, and “magic” in stories

I’m taking an extended break from ministry activities
(a sabbatical) – so this is a pre-scheduled post for your edification.

I have to admit – I  love a good story.  I love stories that include elements of the supernatural (there’s so much we still can’t explain… except to say, “In the beginning, God…”).  I love stories that mix the two.

In line with that bent, I played Dungeons and Dragons (c) when I was a kid (GASP!).  I read fantasy novels (Piers Anthony, Isaac Assimov, others…).  I loved the first Star Wars movies (the first one came out when I was around 8 years old).

But as a Christian parent, I’ve had to re-think a lot of that, because of the two extremes that have cropped up in modern Christianity (in America at least… I wonder if they are so concerned about it in Africa, or Asia, or Indonesia?)   On the one side you get genuinely concerned parents, trying to appropriately lead their children to a right understanding of the world, the supernatural, and the mixture of the two.  On the other, you find parents who are deathly afraid that their kid might hear about a person named Harry Potter and slide down the slippery slope into witchcraft and wizardry themselves.

So what’s a Christian parent to do?

Honestly, I think there’s WAY too much hype over this issue in some quarters, and not enough wise-thinking parents teaching their children HOW to think, rather than WHAT to think.  So in that vein, I give you THIS article by N.D. Wilson on the subject.  I found it very helpful!

Affordable Christmas Gift for Christian Couples

Just a suggestion… “The Marriage Improvement Project” would make a great Christmas gift (one that really matters) for the couple in your life who could use some help understanding God’s design for marriage.  E-book copies are free, and hard-copy is very affordable with discounts for multiple copies.  You can find it at the “RESOURCE” page at the top of this blog!

Reading list for my sabbatical… so far

I want to spend a good amount of my sabbatical time reading… for the sake of my own soul and for the sake of decompressing a very full mind and heart.  Most of the books I’ve chosen so far I feel I’ve been “led to” by one means or another, and am eager to have the time to do some reading on a more “relaxed” level than is typical of me.  Anyway, here’s the list so far…

The Spirit-Filled Church – by Terry Virgo

 

 

 

 

 

The Storm of War: A New History of the Second World War by Andrew Roberts
 

 

 

How to Write a Sentence: And How to Read One by Stanley Fish

 

 

 

 

 

Windows of the Soul: Experiencing God in New Ways by Ken Gire

 

 

 

 

 

The Rest of God: Restoring Your Soul by Restoring Sabbath by Mark Buchannan

 

 

 

 

 

Writing for the Soul by Jerry Jenkins

 

 

 

 

 

Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin (no, I don’t expect to finish this one during the break!)

The Marriage Improvement Project – BOOK IS NOW AVAILABLE!!

A bit ahead of schedule,

the Marriage Improvement Project has gone to print!

It’s available for purchase (hard-copy) and FREE download (E-book pdf).

This book is a hands-on, “get ‘er done” type of book… walking married couples through some of the foundational biblical truths upon which marriage is built!  It is designed for couples to work through together, so two copies of the book are suggested!  At a discounted price for two, anyone can afford this helpful, marriage-building resource!

Here’s the blurb from the back cover…

IS IT TIME FOR A MARRIAGE IMPROVEMENT PROJECT?
Marriage was created by God to be a wonderful blessing, to every married couple and to the watching world… but time, sin, and our culture can make keeping your marriage in good repair difficult at best. In The Marriage Improvement Project (MIP), Pastor Carey Green draws on the word of God, his own marriage, and years of pastoral and marriage counseling to teach some of the foundational truths of how God intends marriage to be. The MIP is designed for spouses to complete separately (separate copies are helpful), with team projects to work on periodically together. In the MIP, you’ll explore…

  • Marriage First
  • The Cleaving Principle
  • The Unity Principle
  • Communication is Key
  • Attacking Anger
  • The Wife’s Role
  • The Husband’s Role
  • The Principle of Sexual Sanity

You can order copies for yourself, or download the free E-book version by going to the FREE RESOURCES – GROWTH RESOURCES tab at the top of the page!

And please… help me get the word out about this resource!

Marriage Improvement Project book… ALMOST READY!

I’m excited.  Really excited!  A book I’ve been working on for a couple of years is finally almost ready!  The Marriage Improvement Project should be ready to “go to print” for hard copies, and be available for free download here on my blog site within the month.

My friend Craig is working on the final modifications to the book cover (I can’t believe how cool and great it looks!), and the text is in its final proofing phase.  I’ve used this material in various forms over the last 4 years in my personal ministry and have found it to be very helpful and fruitful.

Please pray with me for the final steps in getting this book ready…

Just finished writing a book… not the one I thought I would…

I’ve been working on a “marriage devotional” type book for a long time… so it’s funny that something else was actually published first.  Still working on the marriage book… it will be done soon… I hope!

Anyway, I just finished “The Elder Training Handbook” – which actually came out of my own need for a tool to help me assess and train men for Eldership in the church.

You can find it on the “Free Resources” part of the blog – E-book downloads are free – Hard-copy, professionally bound copies are not, but they ARE pretty cheap!

Pass the word along to anyone who may find it useful!

A very embarrassing moment… I’m glad it was private!

As part of my preparation for my upcoming Sunday message, I took some time to look through some older stuff I had prepared on the same topic.  As part of that, I just finished listening to a sermon I preached in 2006.

EMBARRASSING…

…not because the delivery was especially bad, but because the theology was.  Man, that’s the worst kind of embarrassing.  To quote Tigger, I got it “all twisty-taled around!”

It makes me shudder to think that at any given time in my life, I could, with the greatest conviction and certainty, say or write something absolutely wrong – and be confident it is right.

“Oh God… help me to humbly speak Your truth… and only Your truth.  I ask You to cover even my preaching with the precious, forgiving blood of Your Son, Jesus”

NO – you cannot have a copy of the sermon… it will self-destruct in 10 seconds…

One Small Child – A Christmas Article

One of the local papers in the town where our church meets (The Leadville Herald Democrat) invited me along with other local pastors to post a “Editorial” style letter for the Christmas season.  To me, that’s a no-brainer opportunity – so below is what I submitted.  Your comments are welcome.

One  Small Child

When my first child was born I was amazed by the range of emotions that swept over me – gratitude, fear, and wonder were among them. I held him, moments after his birth, and cried, sang, and prayed. It was unforgettable.

Four days later we placed him in his infant carrier for the first time, buckled him securely in the car, and drove away from the hospital. Suddenly I was struck by another, quite unexpected emotion. Disbelief. My wife and I had come to the hospital together and were being allowed to drive away with ANOTHER tiny little person in our possession. Could it be true? He was mine. My joy, my responsibility, my son – compactly contained in a blanket in the backseat.

Any birth is a miracle; one of God’s amazing gifts that keeps on giving. It’s no surprise that His greatest gift, His Son, came through the amazing process of a baby’s birth. But with Jesus, it was more miraculous than normal. His was the most anticipated birth in the history of the world, foretold by God hundreds, even thousands of years prior. And, true to God’s word, He was born to a young woman who had never known the intimacy of a marriage relationship – a virgin. We are told that his mother Mary, “treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19) The wonder she must have felt makes mine look quite ordinary.

In the hurry of our modern-day Christmas, we often feel little “wonder” about Jesus’ birth, despite it being the most important one ever recorded. God’s miraculous gift – the possibility of forgiveness, meaning, and hope for all eternity are ours through Him. This Christmas, slow down and consider that this one, small child is God’s greatest gift to you.